Entry 07 · Forgiveness
Irreversibility and forgiveness.
1. Name the burden
You said “I forgive you” years ago. You meant it. And yet the weight is still there when their name comes up.
2. Translate the idea
Some things cannot be undone. Arendt called this the irreversibilityof action. Forgiveness is not pretending the wrong was acceptable. It is the act that releases the future from being permanently sentenced to the past.
3. Bring it home
If you have said the words but still carry the weight, you may not be a hypocrite. You may simply have been given the wrong instructions about what forgiveness is for.


